OMG an update!

It’s been quite a while since I’ve posted, and I figured I’d give you all some updates.

I haven’t been active (at all) online, as I’ve been content lately with My one slave. Things have been going very well, and I’m very happy all around with the situation/relationship that we have.

At this point in time, I’m not really interested in chatting with random slaves online, or wasting My time with annoying crap. However, I’m always open to *pure* financial domination, no fucking around. And I don’t want to chat with you afterwards, unless you’re spending cash… and lots of it. Otherwise, don’t waste My time. (Basically, anything less than $1,000 won’t spark My interest.) Talk with your money or not at all. :) Hehe. (I know, I’m awesome).

So, if you want anything to do with Me you can tribute before contacting Me, or go crazy on My wishlist and give it some time for the items to actually arrive. I’m not on Yahoo much, but will get online if you email Me in advance along with a tribute.

I will consider requests for teamviewer sessions, but at great cost to your wallet, psyche, and well being.

I have been thinking about how I would like to start writing more again. Honestly, I’d rather spend My time writing on financial domination/domination/etc. than spend 10 minutes just chatting with any of you. I find it much more fascinating to analyze the ridiculousness than constantly subject Myself to it these days. Not to mention, no matter how special you might think you are, I’ve dealt with someone exactly like you. No, really. Someone has typed those words to Me, someone has had that same fantasy, blah, blah, blah. Again; you’re not special, and that lack of something special is putting Me to sleep. Yawn. Maybe that’s why so many subs are always seeking out newbies. Food for thought.

I was saddened to hear of the passing of Bruce, the creator of Domme Dose. He was always a pleasure to talk to, and was very helpful to Me and many other dommes in many ways. I know that when I first started up, a very large amount of My traffic came from the writing I did on his site, and the column I had there allowed quite a lot of slaves to find Me. Rest in peace, Bruce!

 

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denied has been busy

So I’ve been receiving a picture every day from denied for the past few weeks… each day was a different letter he had spelled in his coffee. Apparently he finally finished today.

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Happy days for Goddess Chloe fans by denied

Goddess Chloe has gone away on a decadent Hollywood vacation, and has permitted me to write Her column this week. That way, She can spend even more time relaxing and lounging about and no doubt having a divine and luxurious time.

She definitely deserves a vacation. The last weeks and months have been an incredible time for those of us who are lucky enough to serve or worship Goddess Chloe. She has never been more productive than now. She has made a new web site, started blogging, started up Her column at the Dose again, and made lots and lots of new clips.

Just in the last week She has made some seriously hot clips. Like this ruined orgasm clip, or this clip, and this clip. my favorite is this ignore clip, which may be the classiest clip on Kinkbomb right now. Truly worthy of a Goddess. i love how elegant She is there, a truly superior woman. How can you look at something like that and not melt completely?

Goddess Chloe in Hollywood

Another big thing Goddess Chloe has focused on lately is hypnosis. She has started a new series of hypnosis sessions for the purpose of completely transforming the listener into the perfect kind of slave for Her.

The amount of work that seems to go into these is astonishing. There’s nothing half-hearted about this project. Goddess Chloe has always had a natural talent for hypnosis. She made several fantastic sessions some time ago, and there has always been something hypnotic about Her non-hypnosis worship clips as well – like this one, where She uses Her amazing eyes to stare you into submission and passivity.

But recently She has begun taking this to a whole new level, by working in all sorts of elements of advanced hypnosis, mind-control, NLP, etc. She has devoured entire stacks of books, taken courses – and experimented on slaves. (What else are we for?) All to find out the best way of molding subs to Her purpose.

The result so far is four amazingly powerful new hypnosis clips, and She’s working hard to create more.

The first is one She intends all subs to start out with, before they listen to the others. It lays the groundwork for the rest that follow by creating triggers the other sessions rely on. It also has a fairly long induction, making it especially good for newcomers to hypnosis.

In the second She begins to manipulate you for real, by having You associate happiness with obedience to Her, and having You dream about Her at night.

The third is Her most ambitious yet. It attempts to give the listener a foot fetish, or strengthen the one they may have already. This is because Goddess Chloe genuinely loves having Her feet worshiped, and would prefer all Her slaves to be foot freaks. And – it works, it really does. Before listening to this, i had never had a foot fetish, or looked much at anyone’s feet, not even Goddess Chloe’s. But now i appreciate just how beautiful and sexy feet are. i’m well on my way to becoming a true foot freak.

 

The fourth is a clip that should be listened to while falling asleep every night. It guides you towards sleep, while reaffirming your devotion and obedience to Goddess Chloe.

 

All of these clips use different methods of induction and different types of manipulation. And they’re all very effective. Listening to one of these every day will change you.

 

And this is just the beginning. Goddess Chloe loves making these, and She has lots of ideas for more. And also for more hot non-hypnosis clips.

Goddess Chloe being Interviewed in Hollywood

So, yes, whether you’re just a fan of Goddess Chloe or one of Her lucky lucky slaves, this is a pretty exciting time. And She’s just getting warmed up.

(Thank You, Goddess, for permitting me to write this week’s column. Hope You’re enjoying Yourself! – denied)

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(Originally posted to dommedose.com here)

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A few updates and New Clips!

I’ve had a pretty eventful few weeks, but what I’m most excited about is My mini vacation to Hollywood this week :) I’m taking a break from packing this morning to write this – I’ll be leaving in a few hours (so that also means I probably won’t be online for sessions – I’ll be too busy having a blast!).

I’ve been absolutely LOVING My new office/studio! I’m sure you all have been loving it as well what with all the new clips I’ve been filming! I filmed three more clips yesterday, and have quite a few that are yet to be released. I’ve a whole lot in store on the clip front, so make sure to keep checking back often. Also, I do custom clips (if it’s one I think I’ll enjoy). Custom requests can be sent here.

I’ve also been loving how many gifts have been showing up lately (not that that’s at all out of the ordinary). I also got to take over a slaves Amazon account via teamviewer :) I still retain 100% control of it, and have been going on randomly to buy Myself stuff as I think of it. I really love that. I’ll think, “oh hey, there’s a game/dress/whatever I want… I’ll go order it on so and so’s dime.” And just like that, Mine. Being Me is too cool sometimes.

And here are some brand new clips for you to buy up!

Cleaning out your filthy butt.
Cleaning out your filthy butt.

Look at you, butt boy: Always looking for new weird things to stick up your ass. You can’t control yourself, can you? Any time you see something that fits, you just stick it in. It’s an addiction. It’s sick. I’d pity you if it wasn’t so funny.

Your ass must be pretty filthy by now, after all those weird objects have been in there. It’s time to clean it up. In this clip I instruct you on how to clean your filthy butt in the most humiliating way possible. As a bonus, you’ll get to stick something new up there! Wow, aren’t you lucky?!
Buy it on Kinkbomb or Clips4Sale
Ruin your orgasm for Me.

So, you want an orgasm? Well you’re a slave, and slaves like you don’t deserve such hedonistic acts of pleasure and self indulgance. Haha. I lounge before you, in My knee-high latex stockings, silk gloves, classic little black dress and red lips. I look so gorgeous, you will do anything that I tell you.

I’ve decided to allow you to have some pleasure – but I’m going to make you ruin that pleasure for yourself. It’s time to ruin that orgasm all for My amusement.

Buy it on Kinkbomb or Clips4Sale!

 

Renouncing your religion for Goddess Chloe
In the past you’ve served false prophets and gods. I understand that. It’s easy to get deceived. But now that you’ve found Me, you no longer have that excuse. From now on, worshiping Me will be your religion. Your _only_ religion.
You will renounce your old religion, and devote yourself to Me. I will be your God. I will be your Goddess. I will be the superior being who gives your pathetic life meaning. I will tell you what’s right and wrong.
It all starts here, by watching this clip, renouncing whatever gods you’ve worshiped in the past, and accepting Me, and only Me, as your savior.

Buy it on Kinkbomb or Clips4Sale!

Also many of My clips are available on Clipvia!

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The Wrong Way to Stop Serving

I had a slave that served Me for over a year. I controlled his computer via Teamviewer, and was micro-managing almost every aspect of his life. We talked every single day, sometimes for hours. Then, one day, he was gone. Poof. Disappeared completely. I didn’t hear from him for years – until the other day.

When he contacted me again, I confronted him about this. His excuse? That at least he’d served Me well for as long as he had. It would have been worse if he’d disappeared after a few weeks. By serving Me for a year, he said, at least I’d gotten some benefit from it.

Actually, I feel the exact opposite. If a slave leaves after a week or two, it’s not a big deal. It happens. But when you spend a year talking to someone every day, it’s nearly impossible not to have some emotions about them. I have never thought highly of this slave. I purely used him for My benefit and gain. That was fine with him, and it worked out. But I was surprised by how much it distressed Me when he fell off the face of the Earth.

A lot of slaves think that their Domme do not give a fuck about them at all. But no matter how cruel a Domme is, she will almost inevitably form some emotional connection to her long-term slaves (even if she doesn’t even like them).

When My slave disappeared, I was left to wonder if he had died, or what had happened. If he had sent a small note saying he was leaving, I would have been able to move on.

Closure is important in any relationship, even a D/s relationship with a distant online Domme. The worst possible way to break off a relationship is to just stop talking, not give any reasons, and leave the other wondering what is going on.

Recently I’ve reflected on how this experience affected Me as a Domme. I think it made Me less likely to put so much effort into any one slave (until this past year). There was always that lingering fear that any slave, no matter how devoted they seemed, may just up and leave at any time, without even saying goodbye.

My slave also explained that he felt he needed to make a total break because serving Me was like an addiction. He was afraid he wouldn’t be able to do it gradually.

I’ve heard other stories like this, about slaves who leave their Domme after a long period of time by cutting all contact. I understand that it can be difficult to face one’s own cowardice, fear, shame and guilt. Serving a Domme can feel like an addiction that you just need to break right off.

But Dommes are not objects. We are human beings. Many of us treasure the connections we form with our slaves. We are also superior women who deserve to be treated with respect.

So, here is My advice to slaves:

If you feel the need to leave your Domme, tell her. Don’t take the coward’s way out and just slip away. It’s easy to do this, especially when most of our interactions are behind computer screens where it is easy to hide.

– Goddess Chloe

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ZOMG Brand new Clips!

Extreme Sleep Hypnosis Session
Hypnosis Session – Controlling your Sleep and Dreams!
You will listen to this special sleep session every night when you go to bed. In it I guide you gently towards sleep, but not just any kind of sleep. This will be sleep under MY control. Your dreams now belong to Me.
I will use them to deepen your addiction to Me, and make you go to ever greater lengths to make Me happy. You will no longer be able to have happy dreams unless you know that you’ve done your utmost during the day to make Me happy.
If you’ve been lazy or selfish, I will show up in your dreams to punish you. Warning: This clip will indoctrinate you at the time of day when you’re most vulnerable to suggestion. It will turn you into an obsessed slave whose every waking and sleeping moment is devoted to Me. I WILL take over your dreams – permanently. This audio uses triggers from the first session in this series, which I suggest you listen to before any other.
Buy this Audio Session:
worship while goddess readsWorship While I Read and Ignore you!
Come in here, slave. Kneel down and don’t say a word. No, I didn’t want you for anything. Just sit there and observe me while I relax in My chair, reading a book. Don’t say a word. Don’t do anything. No touching. Just sit and wait.
Bask in My divine glory.
Reflect on how weak you are for Me. Don’t move a muscle until I give permission.
This HD clip is a must have for slaves who long to know what it is like to be in My presence. The quality is so high that it feels like you’re right there in My office, looking up at Me. I treat you with total disdain, and ignore you completely for a full 16 minutes. The book I’m reading is more interesting than you’ll ever be. But even this is a HUGE privilege, one you’ll never be worthy of. All you’re allowed is to watch this clip and fantasize about what it would be like. WORSHIP GODDESS CHLOE.
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What is Financial Domination?

Financial domination. Few people outside of Domme Dose and other findom communities have heard about it, and those who have, often misunderstand it. Wild stories circulate in mainstream media, and even many in the findom scene have a warped view of what it involves.

In this article I will attempt to clarify what financial domination is, what it is not, look at different practices, and different types of slaves and dommes. Send this article to your vanilla friends – if you dare! You may also learn a few things yourself.

Many people find financial domination difficult to comprehend because they can’t imagine a fetish relationship where the primary focus is on giving money and gifts. I too found this strange at first. But that is exactly what financial domination is: domination of a submissive who has a fetish for giving money to a dominant.

Submissives with a financial fetish are not always wealthy. Some are, but others have average incomes. To some finsubs, a $100 tribute is a lot, to others it’s just getting started.

Financial domination often comes integrated with other fetishes. For instance, a financial slave may have a cuckold fetish. They love giving the dominant money to pay for dates or vacations with her boyfriend. A financial slave with a foot fetish may want to buy shoes and send money for pedicures.

Don’t confuse financial dommes with sugar babies, who are expected to be sweet and loving towards the sugar daddy. Many sugar babies discover financial domination and think that it is virtually the same thing, but the “domination” part of “financial domination” makes it something else entirely.

Let’s start by taking a look at your typical money slave. This is someone who strictly has a fetish for giving money (tributing) to a superior female.

What arouses money slaves most of all is often the idea that the woman they are tributing has to do little or no work to obtain money. They love to see images of the woman looking completely relaxed, holding large sums of cash. They have little desire to see the woman naked, and this could even be a huge turn off for them.

Money slaves come in different forms. There are slaves who enjoy it when the domme demands money. Others prefer to surprise the domme and don’t like demands being made.

There are long-term and short-term money slaves. Long-term money slaves tend to stick with one dominant and give her any extra cash they have each week/day/month. Some will do extreme things to obtain more money, like going into debt, finding another job, or selling their possessions.

Some long-term money slaves go even further. They give the dominant all of their financial information (income, bills, etc.) and the dominant then controls and decides how much the slave is allowed to spend for themselves, the rest all going to her. In my experience many financial slaves may fantasize about this sort of situation, but only a few will actually take it to that level.

The short term money slave follows a more irregular pattern, with occasional bursts of spending. He will find himself becoming aroused from thinking about handing his money to a dominant. He may then start by tributing small amounts, building up to larger numbers. Each tribute makes him feel more aroused, until he loses all self-control. Before the night is over he may have given a large percentage of his money to the dominant.

These slaves often seek out a different dominant each time, or cycle between a few regular ones. Dommes refer to these as “drive by money slaves.” Many such slaves feel shame and regret afterwards. They may cancel sent gifts, try to reverse payments, and tell themselves that it’s the last time.

Some even become addicted to financial domination. They will feel happy during a session/money draining, and then feel horrible about themselves afterward. Just like gambling addicts and alcoholics, they may take precautions in an attempt to limit themselves – like making their funds unavailable to be spent online or over a certain limit. Sometimes they will give their wife/girlfriends control of their finances. When they relapse they freak out about having to explain where the money went. There are financial slaves of this nature who have trapped themselves in this same pattern for years, some even decades.

Long-term financial slaves can also get into trouble, but this depends on the agreements made, and the demands made by the dominant. Long-term slaves often have regular contact with their dominant, and will be able to hear about what their money was spent on. It excites them to see their dominant living luxuriously.

It’s important to note that money slaves tend to be immediately turned off if they feel that their dominant actually needs the money. They want to be used by her, to give her more on top of what she has already. They don’t want to feel as though their dominant relies on their money to make ends meet. They want her to live luxuriously and spend their money frivolously, without a second thought.

Another type of financial slave, and the most prone to trouble is the financial slave with a blackmail fetish. Let’s take another look again at the short-term slave who gets trapped in the addictive pattern of spend/happy – comedown/unhappy – afterwards/guilt.

They may begin to fantasize about handing over personal information that could ruin their social lives, like humiliating photos of themselves, along with contact information for their wife or boss.

Most never take this further than fantasy, but some go as far as drawing up blackmail contracts with a domme. This can be extremely dangerous when the dominant is inexperienced (or is exceptionally ruthless and evil) or very new to D/s. It can also have legal consequences for both the domme and the money slave. The dominant should make a good assessment of the individual situation (including the mental state of the submissive) before actually becoming involved with a blackmail agreement.

For instance, in rare cases someone claiming to be a blackmail slave may use a dominant in attempt to blackmail someone other than themselves. It is extremely important that the domme ensures that the person is in fact who they say they are.

There are many types of financial dommes as well. Many see financial domination strictly as a way to make easy money. Others may look at it as their job, some as their lifestyle, and some as their own fetish.

For every successful financial domme, there are countless who will never make anything close to a living doing it.

Some women sell video clips on clip stores like Kinkbomb and Clips4sale, or pay-to-view mails on sites like Niteflirt. I’ve noticed that these sites attract different types of financial slaves. Slaves who prefer to give tributes during a cam session gravitate towards clip stores. Those who prefer to just hand over money and get nothing in exchange will usually go to a site like Niteflirt. Here they can call an ignore line, or buy previously made pay-to-view emails. They can spend hundreds or thousands of dollars without the domme ever interacting with them.

People who are unfamiliar with financial domination often misunderstand what it involves, because they overlook the domination/submission aspect of it.

Financial slaves are submissives. They regard the domme as superior to them, feeling that the domme deserves the money more than they do. They want her to live a perfect life of luxury, where her every whim and desire are met (usually while laughing at what a pathetic tool the sub is).

I’ve found that some slaves prefer to serve younger/inexperienced dommes because they are afraid of the psychological powers an experienced domme can have over them. Others seek new dommes because they feel that they can help to educate the domme about their fetish, and help her acquire as many money slaves as possible. They can be highly flighty, and tend to seek out 18-20 year old dommes, usually serving anywhere from a few months up to a year before finding another.

Some financial slaves “slut,” or, secretly tribute other dommes on the side to satisfy their own cravings. Some will try to “top from the bottom,” or, try to get the domme to satisfy their wants in manipulative ways so they can get off while maintaining the illusion of having no power over her.

The type who seek out younger and inexperienced dommes tend to be more manipulative in this sense. Often they do not realize this, and convince themselves that they are helping the domme and not being selfish.

Some women have a genuine fetish for having slaves serve them, while others find that they are just good at using slaves for their benefit (but don’t really care about it). Both types are desired by money slaves. To some it can be arousing that the domme is only using them for money, while others like to know that the domme enjoys D/s.

I cannot write from personal experience when it comes to real-time financial domination, but I can write of the most common fantasies I hear of from money slaves. They will often fantasize about meeting the domme at an ATM and just letting her withdraw what she wants from their bank account, or meeting her, handing her cash/credit cards while she laughs at how easy it is for her to use him.

Sometimes financial domination is incorporated into forced intoxication. Here a domme will instruct the sub to become intoxicated, and demand tributes that get larger as the sub becomes more intoxicated. The sub enjoys “getting stupid” for her. They find that their submissive side is at its peak when they are inebriated. Their rational side disappears as their world-view narrows, and they are completely unaware of anything but the domme and their desire to please her.

I mentioned earlier that some form addictions to financial domination. This in itself is also a fetish. Basically, the domme will offer “financial domination therapy/recovery,” and will roleplay that they care about the sub and want to help them – doing this while taking their money, pretending that each payment is a step to recovery.

I find it amusing how judgmental people can be about financial domination. When financial domination is covered in mainstream media, readers often react with disgust. They may understand and accept the most perverted of fetishes, but financial domination makes them wary.

I spoke with someone who had a fetish for golden showers, but was disturbed by financial domination. So, getting your face pissed on is more normal than wanting to give money to beautiful, intelligent and superior women? It would be easier to understand for many if the Dommes were being paid to perform sexual favors.

But that’s just it! The women don’t need to exploit their bodies or do anything they don’t enjoy to make money. I explained all of this to a friend the other day who had never heard of it. They said that it was absolutely brilliant. The women who are successful financial dommes are brilliant, truly.

We are strong, intelligent, beautiful and dominant women who have realized that we can make money (and a lot of it) by exploiting the weaknesses of submissives who want to hand over their cash while we laugh at them, and if we feel like it, humiliate them and allow them glimpses of our beauty, intelligence, and the superior lives we lead.

 

This was original published as part of My weekly column for dommedose.com. The original can be found here.

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